alsallam alikom
how r u
to me:when someone hurt my feelings
its shown ready on my face and my tears falldown but I never cry infront of any one if I want to cry I run to my room
thanks abunch
I have a simple question for you
How do you react when someone hurts your feelings
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I'll tell you about myself
I shut down, run, hide away....and then get my feelings hurt even more when people don't come looking for me....people I thought cared about me.....some do, but not as many as I thought would.
alsallam alikom
how r u
to me:when someone hurt my feelings
its shown ready on my face and my tears falldown but I never cry infront of any one if I want to cry I run to my room
thanks abunch
البكيرية
First of all welcome dear sister
I wish you a happy useful time in here
We're glad to have you as a new member
Regarding how I feel when hurt by others. I used to kind of act as you do
But I guess I grew up and stopped being over sensitive
It doesn't mean that I became senseless,it's just that I got the power to absorb shocks
I was in a lecture a couple of weeks ago and the lecturer gave us a golden advice
He said " Don't let your remote control in the hands of others" .. o
It was exactly what I needed to learn at that moment
It's us and only us who should control our mood not any word or behavior done by others
عفوا ......!!
حتى صمت العالم تبدد .......!!
إلا صمتي في كل حين يتجدد .......!!
Thanks for your nice words Enigma, but sometimes you can't control yourself and feel pity for yourself.
I wish I could be like you , but it's not that simple.
You see I'm a person who is always focusing on the way to treat people and always making my concern on not to hurt anyone's feelings. It hurts me a lot when they don't care and act with me the opposite way.
I'll try anyway.
Thanks for the advise. You're really v. sweet
hi honey
well about my feelings when someone hurt me get aqway & go to my room & crying
the problem is no body cant feel what you feel
I'll be like this
Thank a lot
hi all
it depends on who is hurting my feelings
if he/she is so important to me .... i'd swallow it and shut up
or maybe cry
i might tell them ....so they fix what they did
if the person is not so important and meant to hurt me ... i'll payback quickly and smoothly
i'm known in talking in way that makes the listener wonder am I praising or insulting
:))
About myself
Simply
I'll give him / her my shoulders and go away
and never look behind
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