listening skill

[همووووسه وبس]

Salam Every body,

Today I would like to talk about an important though ignored by most people. Everywhere you go, you meet people who lack of these important and tend to ignore other's opinion and talk. Those are the people who lacks the fundamentals of listening.

First thing I would like to talk about in this subject is the level and steps of a good listening process
Real listening is an active process that has three basic steps.
Hearing. Hearing just means listening enough to catch what the speaker is saying. For example, say you were listening to a presentation presented by one of your colleagues, and he says the fact that no two persons are alike . If you can repeat the fact, then you have heard what has been said.
Understanding. The next part of listening happens when you take what you have heard and understand it in your own way. Let's go back to that presentation. When you hear that no two are alike, think about what that might mean. You might think, "Maybe this means that the pattern or behavior of any two persons can't be alike. Or you can think that no two person looks alike etc.."
Judging. After you are sure you understand what the speaker has said, think about whether it makes sense. Do you believe what you have heard? You might think, "How could the behaviors to be different for every person? But then again, the fingerprints are different for every person. I think this seems believable."
and so on

[enigma]

First of all thanks for joining us dear sister and thanks for choosing our club to discuss an issue

Now it's known that listening is an art that not many can master

We can all hear things but do we all listen in an effective and good way

Many of us have concluded wrong outcomes and misjudged things just because we weren't good listeners

I do agree with you dear that good listening is a must when it comes to communicating with others

[so quiet]

Thanks sweety for bringing up this
nice topic its really beneficial
For me, I join my openion to yours
Enigma listening is an art
but few people can apply its skills
sometimes during a conversation with someone I try hard to concentrate on every single word is being said but I hate it when something else comes up to my mind suddenly and distracts my attention... anyway although I try to be but I'm not that good listener
honostly... how far do you cosider yourself a good listener? o

[Aseel]

Not every one has the ability to be a good listener

thoug it's a skill we have to master




I totally agree with what you mentioned in your topic



By the way, welcome to our club, dear ;)


All the best