Fall in love

**breezemsa** · 04-07-2009, 01:01 AM

Hi...................
COLOR="DarkRed"]sometimes i hate the languge when I met something difficult while
studying but one day I read this artical ......so I change my way for studying the boring subject[/COLOR]
I fall in love with the subject

Language learning is like falling in love. In fact you have to be in love to learn a language well. I mean in love with the language. You have to have a love affair with the language. You do not have to marry the language. You can have an affair and then move on to another language after a period of time. But while you are learning the language you have to be in love with it. And you will learn faster if you are faithful to the language while you are studying it.

Just as when you are in love, you want to and need to spend as much time as possible with the object of your love. You want to hear its voice and read its thoughts. You want to learn more about it, the many words and phrases that it uses to express itself. You think of the language wherever you are. You start to observe the object of your love closely. You notice all the little things it does, you become familiar with its peculiar behaviour patterns. You breathe it. You hear its voice. You feel it. You get to know it better and better, naturally.

Just as in a love affair, there are things about the object of your love that you do not like. You ignore these. You only think about the things that you love. You do not question the object of your love. You just accept it. You do not ask why. You do not ask why it behaves a certain way. You do not seek to understand the secrets to its structure. You just want to be with it, and even to imitate it, the highest form of appreciation.

Loving a language is a one-sided love affair. You love the language. It does not love you back. But the good thing is that it is not jealous of you, of your other previous love affairs. It really does not care if you carry on another love affair at the same time. But, as with people, doing so can create problems…..The language does not criticize you. You can use it however you want, as long as you enjoy yourself.

You are not jealous of other people who love the language you love. In fact you like to meet people who love the language you love. It is a lot less bothersome to love a language than to love a person, Because the love of the language is its own reward. You do not care what the language thinks of you. You are enjoying your affair with the language and do not expect anything in return. As long as you have that relationship, you will learn and improve in the language.

If you just use a language without loving it, you will not improve. If the goal is only to get a better job, or to pass a test, you will not improve. People are the same way. You cannot have a love affair with someone just to get a better job, although……….

HAVE NICE DAYS

**Fattosh** · 04-07-2009, 01:45 AM

Language learning is like falling in love

That is right I agree with what is written here ..... ALL

I want to say : '' it is true ; if you don't love the language you want to learn you aren't going to progress. And as much you love it as much you practice and progress

Thankyou so much for this useful topic

wish you ALL THE BEST

**BloumagrieT** · 04-07-2009, 12:30 PM

breezemsa

It's the rule that make you keep on doing anything in life

One should love what he/she does to succeed in it and to be creative

Love can make mericales

**rose rani** · 04-07-2009, 04:13 PM

should not you love something , you will not be successful at that
thing not only a language

so as always i always relish all your topics

thank you so much for sharing us

**ريما الحسين** · 04-07-2009, 06:56 PM

In fact you have to be in love to learn a language well

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I think u r right ,, coz falling in love gives u motivation to learn this language very

well ..

may allah bless u dear

Regards

**سرور الحلوة** · 05-07-2009, 12:53 AM

**breezemsa** · 06-07-2009, 12:21 AM

[COLOR="purple"]when i was at third years in collage i hate the lingustic subject i decide to sleep [/COLOR

(56):in the lectuer because i think i will waste my time to listen to the teacher and at last i donot understand anything.......but my friend advice me to try to love the subject then you will be change your opinion about it
so i decide to love any sbject even if it is boring or its teacher

thank you friends

**postgraduate** · 06-07-2009, 01:32 AM

breezemsa

Yes, you are right ,. I agree with you too . Thanks

**sleepy eyes** · 06-07-2009, 02:15 AM

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Just as when you are in love, you want to and need to spend as much time as possible with the object of your love. You want to hear its voice and read its thoughts. You want to learn more about it, the many words and phrases that it uses to express itself. You think of the language wherever you are. You start to observe the object of your love closely. You notice all the little things it does, you become familiar with its peculiar behaviour patterns. You breathe it. You hear its voice. You feel it. You get to know it better and better, naturally.

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Exactly

that what i'm doing now

I'm in love with this language since i was child

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nice post dear

Keep on

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**breezemsa** · 07-07-2009, 09:08 PM

thank you

**whatever!!** · 07-07-2009, 09:41 PM

well said

its true,,,,,if u love the language,,,u'll do well in it

honey,,,try to be familiar with English,,meaning,,try to listen 2 tv,,radio,,any one who talks English,,,then u'll get used 2 it,,,and fall in LOVE

thanks honey

**breezemsa** · 10-07-2009, 09:48 PM

thank you

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**shy-rose** · 16-07-2009, 04:26 AM

nice topic breezema

thanx

**breezemsa** · 17-07-2009, 01:04 AM

you are welcome

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**M.o_o.N** · 02-08-2009, 11:16 PM

breezemsa

Thats true ~_~
I believe am in love with Japanese lol
Thank u for this nice topic

**sPna** · 06-08-2009, 11:22 AM

thax alot my dear
I was in love with this lanaguage since I hve been introduced to
I confess that I have neglected it for a long while although I still in love with
but after reading this article
I promise to give it all the love and care that I possess
and never never neglect her again
my ergards

**breezemsa** · 06-08-2009, 11:14 PM

YOU ARE WELCOM ...................
i am so glad that my topic change your mind.........and give you that emotion

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**:lost lady:** · 07-08-2009, 04:59 AM

Thats true..................I really agree with U......thanx alot sweety for sharing us ...may allah bless U.....regards

**:lost lady:** · 07-08-2009, 05:12 AM

Thanx again>>>Muhra r7t be steen dahia >>>>>>>lol

**مهـرة الـروح** · 07-08-2009, 05:19 AM

as usual you are great in your choosing your topics....thanx soooooo much

**نوووووت** · 07-08-2009, 06:34 AM

**zozo-sweety** · 07-08-2009, 07:38 AM

I love this language since I was a little girl.
I used to say the english letters in front of my little brother to make him jealouse of me and get him angery
now, we arebest freinds
I think you should love and practice to be a best lover