Listening Tips for Effective

[Petunia]

Aslam 3likum brotheres and sisters

I have read this artical about listening tips for effective from one site

and then I would like to share it with you..so enjoy reading it all

You ARE listening when
. . .

You come quietly into my private world and let me be me

You really try to understand me even when I'm not making much sense

You grasp my point of view even when it's against your own sincere convictions

You realize that the hour I took from you has left you a bit tired and drained

You allow me the dignity of making my own decisions even though you think they may be wrong

You do not take my problem from me, but allow me to deal with it in my own way

You hold back your desire to give me good advice

You do not offer me religious solace when you sense I am not ready for it

You give me enough room to discover for myself what is really going on

You pay attention and acknowledge my portion of the
conversation

You accept my gift of gratitude by telling me how good

it makes you feel to know you have been helpful

You are NOT listening to me when
. . .

You do not care about me

You say you understand before you know me well enough

You have an answer for my problem before I've

finished telling you what my problem is

You cut me off before I finish speaking

You finish my sentence for me

You find me boring and don't tell me so

You feel critical of my vocabulary, grammar or accent

You are dying to tell me something

You tell me about your experience making mine seem

unimportant

You are communicating to someone else in the room

You refuse my thanks by saying you haven't really done anything . . .

Hope you all liked it and got benefits from it

..

[آنسهOoفكره]

You have an answer for my problem before I've

finished telling you what my problem is

i suffer from that a lot .. lol

great topic.. thank you PINK-PEN

[Petunia]

i suffer from that a lot .. lol

great topic.. thank you PINK-PEN

dear oh sad to hear that

it's ok smile all of us have the same condition looool

well sweetie thanks for visting my topic

happy to see you around sis

wish you the best

[N teacher]

pink pen
Really listening is a skill
thanks 4 this nice topic
Allah be with u

[Petunia]

pink pen
Really listening is a skill
thanks 4 this nice topic
Allah be with u

yes you are right

you are welcome dear

thanks for your reply sweetie

may Allah bless you

[مهـرة الـروح]

great topic creative girl

really it's a skill but who is clever to use it

i hav enjoyed reading it

so realistic


allah bless u

eager to ur next fabulous topics


accept my passing by

[:lost lady:]

useful tips
Creative as always
Thanx a bundle for sharing us dear Sis