Forgiveness…!i

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Forgiveness…!i






True forgiveness is probably one of the hardest things to achieve as a human being because it means both acknowledging that we have been wronged by another person
And understanding that it is better to let go for our sakes and theirs .


For some of us it is easier just to forget about it and get on with their lives .

Of course talking about forgiveness may be hard to swallow for those victimised by others .



What do you think

We bag our hatred and vengeful feelings and slang them over our shoulder for the rest of our lives …

Revenge

Or

Forget and actively seek ways of healing those wounds


your choice as a victim

To forgive ….. or To forget …..


**Wait for your comments**

[Consequence]

The way I see it. revenge is for weak people yet forgetting or forgiving is for the people who are dump enough to believe in the goodness of bad people and second chances.

[Miss-Thought]

Forgiving isn't making the other person better, its making yourself better. Forgiving someone comes from inside yourself, and it doesn't mean that you don't learn a lesson and let that person continue to hurt
The way I do it is when I think about why that person hurt me is what lesson I learned from it, what I can do to prevent getting hurt in the future,and I know that it is now in the past and then moving on to the rest of my life which is ahead of me is more important than what is behind me

forgetting is another story that comes with time :-)...........L

May God Maintain a Smile On Ur Face forever..

Salam - PEACE <3

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

when you forgive you will feel peace inside your heart and then

you will be able to move on with your life

[ساعة صفا]

Good topic sense
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and I think not every one deserve it
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but it's so good to forgive especially
when you are able to take revenge

[Drifter]

Yeh ..forgiveness is so not my thing :P
if you make a mistake ..you own up to your mistakes
actions and consequences
thats what life is all about
:)

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The way I see it. revenge is for weak people yet forgetting or forgiving for the people who are dump enough to believe in the goodness of bad people and second chances.

Nice comment

but why we should leave such people

with out a punishment

they will hurt other people

The goodness of others

what can we do with it if they

even do not apologys for their mistakes

I do appreciate your passing and your nice comment

[:lost lady:]

Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself and not something you do FOR someone else. It helps you move forward. It means choosing to let go and move on.
It is the key to your own happiness and the power that can change misery into happiness.
As Muslims , It is necessary to base our relations on forgiveness. Forgiving each other, even forgiving one’s enemies is one of the most important Islamic rules. In the Qur’an Allah has described the Believers as “those who avoid major sins and acts of indecencies and when they are angry they forgive.” (al-Shura 42:37) and In one Hadith the Prophet -peace be upon him- said that Allah has commanded him about nine things. One of them he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”

Great topic
I enjoyed a lot reading it
Thanks for sharing it with us

[bananajuice]

very nice topic >>> and very nice cimments ........... for me forgiveness has alwayes been my way in treating people it makes me feel better all the time ... , but i've faced lately a persone that alwayes try to distroy my life and i am doing my best not to make her win and at the sametime treat her with what she diserves >>

[BloumagrieT]

*Sense*

It's a healthy feeling to have a light heart

The perfect way to have it is by freeing oneself from

dark feelings like hatred, revenge and beering grudges toward others

Once we reach forgiveness, our souls will fly so high and freely

I loved the image it's expressive

Thanks sweetie

^_^

[أميرة بأخلاقها@]

you should be too proud of these bad feelings which bear the black thoughts


you should live in peace life to be healthy and effective


thanks alot for such fabulous post which I can describe as a piece of cake


all the best

[مسك الحياة]

As Muslims , It is necessary to base our relations on forgiveness. Forgiving each other, even forgiving one’s enemies is one of the most important Islamic rules. In the Qur’an Allah has described the Believers as “those who avoid major sins and acts of indecencies and when they are angry they forgive.” (al-Shura 42:37) and In one Hadith the Prophet -peace be upon him- said that Allah has commanded him about nine things. One of them he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”



I think that we should forgive everyone
becouse if we do some thing wrong we want from others forgive us

Thankyou sooooooooooooooooooooo much

[&رنيم&]

this topic is very sensitive and not all people are able to do it but the speak about it is very easy >>> but how to do it
if the allah himself is forgives to the guilty people so we must to forgive the people and I know your heart may be broken from this people but I say try and try...... to has pure heart from every thing .. and to become happy

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Miss-thought

sunlight

abakil

Drifter

lost lady

BloumagreiT

أميرة بأخلاقها

& رنيم &

مسك الحياة

bananajuice

Many many many Thanks for passing by
and for your nice comments

its truth what you all say about forgiving others but

for me I have a different way in

forgiveness

To all those who doing their best to hurt me
whither you hearing me or not I will pray God
to heal my injures and
I will forgive all your mistakes
instead do me a favor and
***Dont Show Me Your Face Again***

[whoo]

thnxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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You R most welcome

[حاتم5]

[B]

I think that we must be careful when we talk about Forgiveness because it may be missunderstood as weakness.We forgive when we are strong and when we can hurt others we hurt us. But we ARE WEAK when we pretend to forgive because we can do nothing so forgiveness depends on where you stand and what can but you won"t do

[/B]

[sweet peach]

[B]

I think that we must be careful when we talk about Forgiveness because it may be missunderstood as weakness.We forgive when we are strong and when we can hurt others we hurt us. But we ARE WEAK when we pretend to forgive because we can do nothing so forgiveness depends on where you stand and what can but you won"t do

[/B]

TRUE 100 % brother

I'm agree with each word you wrote ... Really not all the people
deserve forgiveness, because they understand it as weakness.. & they remain hurting you regardless your feelings... But, there are still someones who deserve my forgiveness always & forever even they repeat their mistakes again & again

They are my own & I can't live without them

[سمـ الاحساس ـو]

May Allah bless you and reward you , for your efforts.

[sabbbbbah]

to foregive