How to love???

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

How to love???

How to love?

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same ****. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).

While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving

Steps:

1 - Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

2 - Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.

3 - Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

4 - Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

5 - Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them

Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love

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[RIAN]

I believe every person has his own way in loving people around him/her. This creates the aesthetic spirit of love so making a checklist or a guideline for others often is worthless

Thanks

[أم عجلان]

you may stop if s.one hurts u badly

[محمدالمعشني]

every one has his/her own steps in love. No one can teach others ''steps of love'' this is my idea about love.
thank you for your topic.

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

thank you my friends for your comments
they add a lot to the topic

[abu ghararah]

Falling in Love With Love


I weave with brightly colored strings
To keep my mind off other things
So, ladies, let your fingers dance
And keep your hands out of romance

Lovely witches
Let the stitches
Keep your fingers under control
Cut the thread, but leave
The whole heart whole

Merrry maids can sew and sleep
Wives can only sew and weep
Falling in love with love
Is falling for make-believe
Falling in love with love
Is playing the fool

Caring too much is juvenile fancy
Learning to trust is just
For children in school
I fell in love with love one night
When the mood was full
I was unwise with eyes
Unable to see

I fell in love with love
With love everlasting
But love fell out with me

[hot-meme=girl]

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love sometimes drew to pains to really deep pains

we truelly miss the innocent love ,the reall love, these days


but in fact, there is a love which really cannot fail
the true love,pure love, which comes from deep heart so if u shared it with someone hold it strongly an' don't let anything, anything to destroy it or break it

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love people from all ur heart an' dont wait the same from them

did u ask ur self once




an' why
surely lots of people love u and why ????i
the answer simply is that
cuz we are as Muslims don't love people for the sake of getting advantages from them
we love them 4 there personalities, morals, ......etc

thanx honey for ur sweet topic



love u all my sweet freinds

[LO butterfly LO]

very nice word , thanks alot

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

Falling in Love With Love


I weave with brightly colored strings
To keep my mind off other things
So, ladies, let your fingers dance
And keep your hands out of romance

Lovely witches
Let the stitches
Keep your fingers under control
Cut the thread, but leave
The whole heart whole

Merrry maids can sew and sleep
Wives can only sew and weep
Falling in love with love
Is falling for make-believe
Falling in love with love
Is playing the fool

Caring too much is juvenile fancy
Learning to trust is just
For children in school
I fell in love with love one night
When the mood was full
I was unwise with eyes
Unable to see

I fell in love with love
With love everlasting
But love fell out with me

abughararah

learning to trust is just
for children at school

Maybe but how is our life is going to be without trusting each other or falling in love, it is true sometimes we fall in love with the wrong person . love is blind but it will never make you a fool, it will make you more sensitive to everything around, and that what real love dose.

thank you for this lovely poem

[sweet peach]

From my own experience, I've found that to love is something beautiful & somehow easy

But to be loved this is the difficult matter

What a great blessing to be a beloved person

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

[IMG][/IMG]

love sometimes drew to pains to really deep pains

we truelly miss the innocent love ,the reall love, these days


but in fact, there is a love which really cannot fail
the true love,pure love, which comes from deep heart so if u shared it with someone hold it strongly an' don't let anything, anything to destroy it or break it

[IMG][/IMG]


love people from all ur heart an' dont wait the same from them

did u ask ur self once




an' why
surely lots of people love u and why ????i
the answer simply is that
cuz we are as Muslims don't love people for the sake of getting advantages from them
we love them 4 there personalities, morals, ......etc

thanx honey for ur sweet topic



love u all my sweet freinds

hot-meme =girl

thank you my sweet angel for your lovely comments
we love you too

[The Paradise]

I love and can't sopping loving
so i love ur topic very much i read it by heart

[cute roses]

very great words




thanks alot

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

very nice word , thanks alot

LO butterfly LO
you are most welcome dear

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

From my own experience, I've found that to love is something beautiful & somehow easy

But to be loved this is the difficult matter

What a great blessing to be a beloved person

sweet peach

You are right my dear sis it is really great to be loved by others

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

I love and can't sopping loving
so i love ur topic very much i read it by heart

The Paradise

thanks honey for sharing us your true feelings
and dont stop believing in love

[ابوعمر المشايخي]

really I like to read in such things because I got engaged. thank you.

[● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆]

very great words




thanks alot

cute roses

you are most welcome